Hey jpx....
Nice wheels! As far as tire sizes go you have a few options that will fit that wheel. I would go with either of these two sizes:
225/45 - best for all around driving and your speedometer will slightly faster. Speedo says 60, you're going 61.
235/40 - best performance size but speedometer is slightly slower. Speedo says 60, you're going 59.
The 235 width is great for performance but if you're DD-ing and commuting a lot the extra tread will definitely hurt your mileage. With the 8.5" you can probably get a 225 on there with no problem and no stretch. A 225 has a 9" section width so it will be very close to exactly the same size as your rim. As far as rubbing it's hard to say with the +30 but I doubt you would have any. We currently have a 225 on my wifes 8.75" wheel and it's a baby stretch on there. Just enough that you have to look at it to see it.
Again, something to keep in mind is that different tires that say "225" on them are not all the same width exactly. I had a set of Dunlops in 225 that didn't rub and got a new set of Bridgestones in the same size and they do, just barely. Well, only if the car has some extra people in it. Hahahah. Rear passenger one too. None of the others.
I would love to recommend you the 235/40 size but it sounds like the 225 will be a better choice for what you need.
I would shop for a 225/45 tire. There are a ton of choices in that size. A lot of guys run the 215 width with some stretch to avoid rubbing but I think you can go up a size. The 215 will definitely be a stretch on that wheel.
This is the 225 on an 8.75" wheel. You can see it stretch a little on the rear wheel. The sidewall has a tiny bit of angle to it.