Also I believe that the the finders are a bit off or maybe that is just for the sadan and Coupe. I maybe wrong though.
And for the paint match and parts have you contacted Collage Hills Honda? I know they have the parts and may be able to paint it for you as well.
You're correct on the 14 coupe having fender changes from the 12-13 coupe. They received a different hood as well. I forgot to mention the 2013 sedans received a new hood from the 2012's as well.