The vid was a nice show of knowing how it works...........
Let's say we looking down at a 4 speed.... 1st is top left; 2nd bottom left; 3rd top right; 4th bottom left......
So to put it from neutral to 1st, think of an(capital) H....... so pull the stick all the way to the left and then up to the left(by riding the walls it can't go any where except to the top left....... so the rest work the same way, follow the walls to go where you want to go.......
Now newer cars (pretty much) have 5, 6, 7 gears..... so now you need to be able to feel those other walls inside the original H, which takes time to feel(they feel like a drop bump while sliding across the top/bottom part of the H's cross bar).
The control of the clutch/gas is evenly important ........... With to object of trying not to let any more time lapse than necessary to get to the next gear in mind....... Finding the pressure point with your foot of the clutch pedal without actually moving any part of the clutch plate(which will disengage the clutch). That pressure actually cuts time when ready to push and inch or 2 more........ so your hand should also be putting pressure on the shift stick ready to go into the next gear, but not actually putting enough pressure to move it out of gear....
Now with both your hand and feet feeling pressure, now follow though with both and it will side into the next gear like butter.
Only one thing left to work on, and that's the gas pedal when going up/higher a gear you want to let off the gas just enough to let pressure off the *drive-train(*engine/tranny/wheels), it only takes a blip(modern race tech can get this done by elec' cutting the engine off for a mille-sec so as to take the pressure off the d-train).
Now going down/lower a gear, you need to do the same with the gas pedal to release pressure, but you want to give it a little(very f'n little) more gas as you slide into the lower gear, because when it goes into a lower gear it's going to require more engine rpm's to match the speed of the d-train.
When moving you don't want to push the clutch pedal to the floor, because that takes more time, and that's time that allows the drive-train to get out of sequence, and makes the gear change rougher.
You don't want to gear-jam/speed shift either that pushes gears together that aren't ready to be together yet(like marrying someone you just met)....
Now, please....... All you peeps that are highly advanced gear changers, let's not confuse the newbies that are learning to shift, with how to speed shift. If you see anything wrong with this for NEW ppl, by all means chime in.